Saturday, November 29, 2008

GRIEVING FOR THE INNOCENT IN MUMBAI


Peril times

Few hours after I wrote about peril times and the importance of being together; the evil fanatic terrorists were acting on in India. It’s very sad to find out what was happening, and yet to see more and more disgrace. As soon as I found out the news I started praying; even before I knew what was about to happen in the Chabad house there I had passed e-mails for praying for the shluchim there.

It’s not surprising that terrorists do whatever they want anywhere and get it with a pass, as the Western society is sleepy. The terrorists attacked Indian citizens, Westerners tourists and aimed at Israelis and Jews – at this time, what was their excuse and what will the mainstream bias media blame?

It’s an unspeakable tragedy on India and its people. Yet, I doubt that much will be done against those who planned such attacks.

I spent the whole Thursday and Friday morning reciting Psalms (Tehilim) waiting for news and when the news came, it was a sad one. It saddens me tremendously to see that selfless people like Rabbi Gavriel Noach and his wife Rivka Holtzberg who were there to spread a meaningful life and light, happened to become martyrs.

We see that their lives will motivate more kindness and love towards everyone, yet, in my humble opinion, we should echo in prayers that the Western Society should awake from its sleep.

The truth is, that the West must acknowledge that it’s under threat, sure we must be good, and do more, pray more and ask G-d for wisdom at such peril times. I had written before the terrorists religion is growing despite all the horror.

So, first and foremost the West should become self-conscious and heed to G-d, instead of taking His name out of places, it should emphasize that in G-d we trust. Thus, in our daily lives we must keep on doing what’s good – refusing to give in to the evil in this World.

The first and foremost important thing is that we must unite and merit that G-d may heed our voices crying for redemption now! Then, all our opponents will be eradicated.

May the Almighty bring His Redemption.

Carine

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

WE MUST UNITE IN PERIL TIMES


A call for Ahavat Israel



We are living in peril times. Few people seem to see what’s really happening in the World, and especially in the United States.

The United States has just elected a man that they don’t even know who he is, but chose to do that, supposedly only for the name of a “change” and also for the color of his skin. Therefore, people tend to be ignoring the traits of character, accomplishments and associations.

Discrediting the idea that Dr. Luther King Jr. himself said that he dreamed of a day when people wouldn’t judge for the color of one’s skin. This applies in all aspects. I won’t be going to this very issue, since it’s not the point I’m trying to stretch.

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is that we’re witnessing that people don’t care for life, sound belief in G-d, family values and anything that stands with good.

It should disturb everyone that all this very liberalism is bringing America down. People sympathize with fundamentalist terrorists, yet they hate the evangelical Christians that stand with Israel and the religious Jewish people also. Some even blame Israel for 9/11!

Ignoring the fact that there was a Gulf war before and besides it the very fundamentalists who are so well protected from the mainstream media and Hollywood “starlets” are the same ones that aim to kill all of them for the very fact that they are considered infidels.

So, you may ask what these all have to do with Ahavat Israel. Well, we’re witnessing that the conversion to their religion is growing, even among those who came from very liberal families from all faiths! Jews, Christians, regular Americans. It’s really surprising the numbers.

Thus, here comes our challenge. All Jewish people should be uniting regardless of religious background, education and cultural differences. It’s a real test and we all should pass it for the survival of the Western society.

The belief in the G-d of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob and the inherent good should speak louder than any other difference. The mitzvah (commandment) of love for a fellow must prevail, so that the Jewish nation should overcome any threat of its very essence.

I think that those who unconsciously or consciously carry on the “holier than thou” syndrome, instead of looking down for any sort of reason, should be considerate even more, since if one thinks he “knows” more, than how much more must he understand and love.



Said that, those who also judge the religious people be it Chassidic, Orthodox or any other should know that they are humans themselves and somehow are trying to do their best. And unfortunately many don’t know how to react to people outside the community.

Therefore, it’s not about judging anybody. But reaching out with love and compassion, even when it seems impossible!

Most Jewish organizations should unite together for the sake of dialoguing and growing together, instead of throwing rocks.

I know that I myself have challenges when encountering some ultra-rigid people who stare at me for some reason; yet, that’s the test and call for understanding and also educating everyone that real Ahavat Israel should be sought at all costs.

The same apply for ultra liberals; since the society has turned so liberal itself that they don’t accept anyone that believes in G-d. So, some blame religion and want to ban it for all costs! But, the imposition of anti-religion is fine?! There are flaws in many institutions, but not in the Almighty G-d. Institutions have problems, because they’re made up of imperfect human beings like anyone.

But, Jewish people have a call to try to become better individuals and pass on the light that destroys darkness. All should show compassion and love for all Jewish people and no-Jewish alike. Even, join strength with genuine non-Jewish believers in G-d who love Israel.

Therefore, moral values, education and love for the country and language where one resides are very important issues as well. But, I will not stress it now.

The message here is that we must go out of our own ways to please G-d and eradicate the hatred within oneself first, in order to bring redemption and change the fact that history keeps repeating itself due to the lack of AHAVAT ISRAEL, in other words the love for your fellow! That’s the only key for our success.

Written by Carine

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

My spicy KOSHER Salmon recipe


B"H

Hi my dear visitors and friends,

A lot of people who enjoy eating FISH always inquire me how I prepare specially salmon.

I have some different recipes. But, I have created this one myself, as I enjoy creating some dishes sometimes. So, I've named Salmon la Carine...

I usually do this quick style for Friday nights (SHABAT/SABBATH DAY).Nevertheless; you can leave soaking Thursday night to Friday in the refrigerator.

You can use any Salmon cut, but I prefer the boneless fillet style, since I don't want my guests choking before me because of some spine bone.

You can use as much fish as you want depending for how many people you desire to serve.

I mostly use lemon in all my fish recipes, because it keeps fresh and without any odor.

SALMON A LA CARINE


Ingredients:

At least two Salmon fillets

1 half lemon (depending how much fish, add more)

½ cup of water

2 Tbs. chopped garlic or as desired

1 Tbs. of all fish seasoning spices or more if desired

1 tea spoon of preferred pepper

1 tea spoon of paprika

Optional: sprinkle a little coriander


INSTRUCTIONS

Wash the Salmon thoroughly well and remove skin with a knife carefully not to remove the flesh together. Give the quick wash again.

Set the Salmon in a pan or container. With a fork carefully make few holes and add the water, lemon and part of that amount of seasonings. Leave soaking for at least 15 minutes if possible. Meanwhile, preheat the oven at 350 c set to broil.

It can be set for the oven with the marinating sauce, and to make more presentable sprinkle the remaining seasoning directly on the fillets, first the garlic and then the pepper, paprika and all spice fish seasoning. Broil for least 15 minutes, don’t let it get dried!

Right when setting the hot surfaces before Shabbat, place it close to a low flame, then, just to make it hot for the Shabbat table after Kiddush and hand wash.

Enjoy it!


Recipe by Carine Silberstein ©

Monday, November 24, 2008

KOSHER RECIPES



INFORMATION ABOUT THIS MEAT DISH

I’m posting some Kosher Recipes, and this one in particular is the kosher alternative of a well popular Brazilian style of the French cuisine dish called STROGONOFF. The kosher version of course has a Glat kosher boneless chuck roll cut in pieces and there’s no dairy sauce whatsoever obviously.

The chuck roll beef is a great source of animal protein in someone’s diet, and besides it whoever wants to keep the weight and health it’s an excellent red meat, since when taken the fat out, it’s slim and has great value of proteins, vitamins and minerals and helps to prevent anemia, since it’s a good source of iron.

MEAT STROGONOFF
1,1 lb of boneless chuck beef cut in small cubits

2 Table spoon of vegetable oil

1 (optional – I don’t like onion, and use pressed garlic) big chopped onion

1 tea spoon of sal (optional)

1 Tbs. of ketchup

1 Tbs of vinegar

1 Tbs of sugar (optional to put)

1 Tbs of tomato sauce (I put much more…And you can use real fresh pressed tomatoes)

½ Nutmeg

Syrian pepper and cinnamon as you may desire

0,66 lb of cooked mushrooms

1 Tbs of flour

2 Tbs of mayonnaise or 1/3 cup coconut milk or soy milk (parve)

INSTRUCTIONS

Cook the meat in the oil until dried, add the seasonings; cover with water and cook (preferably in a steaming pan) for 20 minutes until soft.

Mix the flour with ½ cup of water; add to the pan with the mushrooms and cook for more 5 minutes.

When serving, mix the mayonnaise or coconut milk or soy milk[w1] .



Ps: You could alternate using chicken ( cut in small pieces) also!

I HOPE YOU LIKE IT !

[w1]This recipe is my English version from the Brazilian Portuguese Kosher recipe of Sheila Sasson from the recipe book : Kasher com prazer.
The soy milk is also what I mostly use in America, as the coconut milk might be slightly more difficult to find in Brooklyn stores.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

short real story

Funny & Real Story


My husband went to a grocery to buy some goodies and while waiting on the line to ring the items up at the register, he heard a lady next to him exclaim in a loud voice to the cashier: - That’s it; I’m finished!

So, as my husband is usually playful he exclaimed back: - What?! Did you say that you’re finished?! Don’t say that! Don’t say that! G-d Forbid, please, you can’t say that!

Then, the lady answered back in astonishment: - Ah, what, what? What’s the problem?!

He said to her again: - Please, just don’t say you’re finished! G-d forbid, you’re not finished, you’re not dead!

She in amazement replied: Oh, you mean that…Yes, yes, you’re right!

My husband exclaimed back: - Please, always say that you’ve finished with your ORDER or shopping, but never say that you ARE finished! You still have a lot to live for!

Then, the lady concluded: - Yes, that’s right! Thank you for reminding me. In this case, she turned to the cashier: - I’m not finished, yet!


Carine Silberstein ©

BEAUTY HINTS


BEAUTY HINTS

Every teenager and woman are always looking for the best ways to keep a beautiful skin that looks clean, clear, smooth and soft…

It’s like an eternal job for the entire female world; as most regular “gals” I’ve always taken upon myself to do whatever it took to always keep a good healthy skin.

Most teenagers have to struggle to overcome the challenge of blemishes, and I’ve always had the oily/dry combination skin, yet through a lot of care and patience, one can achieve the goal of reaching a good conditioned skin.

Even, during my rough years of long hours of study I would reserve time for my own skin…Even, my teachers would joke that there wasn’t one day that I didn’t have some make up on! It’s going to be three years since my graduation and the challenge just grows, as other things in life just get even more challenging.

Therefore, one of the best ways to start on this home beauty process is selecting the best suitable products for your skin. If you can’t figure it out by yourself or you are not sure what your skin type is. Then, you’d rather check with dermatologist or a skin professional.

But, assuming that you have an idea what your skin type and needs are, as if you can clearly notice the oily/blemishes aspect or the breakdown or lines of a dried skin, you should start the process of selecting the best products or home made possibilities…

Having in mind that it’s equally important to have a balanced diet and try to get rid of the grease! And it’s very important to drink a lot of water, even if it means more visits to the bathroom. Thus, taking some extra vitamin C & E, helps a million!

In resume, sticking to the program of washing the face (with an appropriate product), you can even make some homemade scrubs! Note that it’s very important to exfoliate your skin.

In this process, moisturize your skin with a lotion that contains some sunscreen, then, if you prefer it could have some tint (instead of make up) or after dried apply your make up as usual.

At night you should wash all make up off and apply a night time moisturizer! The night is the key to keep one’s skin young and firm!

Once a week or as needed you should get some microdermabration (available at pharmacies), and you also once a week or as needed use some kind of mask either a homemade one or a mask like mud mineral seaweed mask, it all depends how much your skin needs it. But, works miracles!
The same concept of exfoliation and hydration goes for your body also.

And be ready to reveal your inner beauty on your face!
WRITTEN BY
Carine Silberstein ©


Here goes some HOMEMADE BEAUTY RECIPES:

HOMEMADE EXFOLIATOR RECIPE
2 heaped tsp fine oatmeal
1 tsp.baking soda.Mix the ingredients, and add sufficient water to make a spread. Apply to your skin and gently rub. Rinse and gently touch with a towel to dry.

Refreshing Orange Scrub
This recipe is by Noreen Finneran "Incredible Edible Spa"
1/2 of an Orange
4 T Cornmeal
Directions: Squeeze orange juice and pulp into a bowl and add the cornmeal. Mix into a paste.
For using it: Apply onto freshly washed face and body. Gently scrub for 2-3 minutes. Rinse, tone, moisturize.

HONEY MASK
You can just pat on your face Honey and wait about some 10 to 15 minutes. Honey is a natural moisturizer and tightens and firms pores.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

WELCOMING VISITORS

I would like to welcome all my friends to my blog where most of my personal beliefs/opinions and judgements might be expressed within the frame of gratitude of free speech, in other words, acknowledging the fact that freedom is a responsibility itself and not a pass for unlawful behaviours. As it could be said that the right of an individual ends when the other person starts, therefore people should NOT be preaching hatred, since that goes against the very nature of freedom.

I wish people should reflect more upon freedom's responsibilities rather than misusing it.

Nevertheless, as it's my blog, I intend to post a range of my opinions in general, law,beauty tips, cooking recipes, poems, short stories, Jewish religious issues and share thoughts. So, if anyone, wants to engage in a healthy reasonable and respectful dialogue, than that's the way to go!

So based on the freedom thought, what do you think is freedom and do you agree with me that's it's very concept is being taken for granted ?

POEM WRITTEN BY ME


WANDERING GALS

Here and there gals wander around to nowhere,

How and when you ask me in glare!

In trouble-times like this, let me explain to those that stare,

First of all we good or bad are all walking on the air,

The financial institutions scramble in a blare,

The stock markets keep crashing to lay us all bare.


The wandering gals just endlessly wander in wonder,

As for suspicious interviews they happen to blunder,

Noticing not that they were deceived by a plunder!


The wandering nice gals just want to make ends meet,

Striving for the soul and body’s wheat,

Yet, here goes more election and corruption deceits?!

The world seems in tuned to Wall Street.

Some lost wandering gals believe in some politician’s vision,

Forgetting this could bring even more collision,

Where is the Founding Father’s vision of precision?

Some wandering gals refuse to believe in fail,

They shout out do not wail,

Even if in the holidays you can’t go to a sale,

We’re humans and united must strive to prevail!


WRITTEN BY Carine Silberstein ©